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i recently saw someone defending posting a picture of themselves, a straight girl, kissing their other straight girl friend because “you should be able to be affectionate with your friends.” that is such a straight privileged perception i couldn’t even process it at first. as a lesbian ive been taught my whole life that being affectionate with people, even my friends, means that other people will consider me creepy or predatory. im terrified of being affectionate with my friends. i know so many wlw struggle with the belief that girls who like girls are perverted and gross. ive seen so many posts saying “girls aren’t the no Homo mentality!!! we kiss and hug each other all the time!!!! ” but that’s only a privilege straight girls are afforded comfortably. wlw have to police their actions constantly so as not to appear like we are preying off of our female friends. straight girls can be touchy with their other girl friends without the implication that they’re a predator but wlw have to be aware of how they act around straight girls 24/7
I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me completely. I don’t want to just have sex, yeah fucking would be awesome, but not if that’s all someone wants from me. I want someone who tries to figure out my mind and wants to see the beauty I see in the world. I can’t have someone who only wants a part of me, I need someone who remembers the little things I do or tell them; someone who thinks the world of me. I want to have all the things that I want to give someone else.
the glow around the moon 