Idk why but unwarranted nudity is such a turn off for me. Especially when it’s meant to be overtly sexual. I hate clicking on a blog and seeing some random faceless girl laying down with her legs spread open… you know the type. That kind of photo that is taken where the woman is purely depicted as an object of desire or meant to satisfy the male gaze.

It’s important for me to consider who the bodies are attached to. I know that’s probably really strange because most people see a body as a body and can be easily turned on if it’s in a sexual context. But for me it’s less about what’s underneath and more about how they carry themselves, what their values are, etc. For example I’m much more inclined to find someone attractive if I’ve first gotten to see inside of their mind a little bit. Which is one of the big reasons why I haven’t been able to watch porn in the last couple of years.

On the other hand, if it’s an unsexualized raw photo that aims to display appreciation for the various parts of the naked human body, I find that extremely beautiful. But it has to be subtle.

Maybe that’s just my demisexuality coming out though.